Quotessence
Home / Topics / Loss Quotes

Loss Quotes

Browse 7511 quotes about Loss.

Related topics

IfsPeopleThinkingWorldKnowsMenWeight LossGainsWayPainFeelsGriefLostWinningMayHeartSufferingWantHumansWeightYearsFirstsWarPersonsMeanShouldGivingLongMindHas BeensDoeMomentsNeedsStillsKindSelfWellsLittlesEndsBelieveMemoriesTryingCausesImportantSometimesLooksSoulProfitChildrenFeelingsJobsMatterRealReasonMightJoyMadeSorrowDisasterSeemsGrievingMovingSaidHappensHelpingRememberTwoWould BeMotherWholeWritingFeltBodyCuttingFacesAgeGreaterRiskTragedyFactsFallLeftStatesTurnsDiesFightingFormPastTermValuesYour LossArtCountryGoneHandsHearing LossLife IsProblemDifferentDonemore

Loss Quotes

“It can take years of tears to melt the hardness that develops in this world, covering our tender, gentler inner selves. Tears for every devastating loss, tears for every humiliating failure, tears for every repeated mistake. Those who honor those tears, and even honor them, are not failures at love but rather its true initiates. First the pain and then the power. First the heart breaks and then it soars.”

WorldYearsFirstsHeartSelfPainLossMistakeBreakThis WorldTearsHonorSoarInner SelfCoveringHeart BreakHumiliatingInitiateHardnessDevastating Loss
Author:Marianne Williamson
Create image

“Artists react to tragedy by doing something both as a way for us as artists to process our pain and our grief and our loss and as a way to give something back and memorialize people that are lost. That always makes it far harder to compartmentalize things. As a species, should never get used to tragedy and we should do everything we can to prevent it from happening and to celebrate people loving people. We should all be lucky enough to be loved and to love someone in return. That's what this is about.”

PeopleGivingEnoughPainArtistLossGriefLuckyTragedyCelebrate
Author:Marc Andreyko
Create image

“The music certainly plays a major role. You can be free enough to comfort each other, to touch each other, to embrace each other, to engage each other, to not be afraid of each other. The music certainly has that very strong element. Go back to folk songs, gospel, jazz, and spirituals. See, all of that came out of tremendous pain and hurt, rejection, loss, alienation, and abandonment. What I'm doing is I'm expressing my pain and hope at the same time.”

EnoughPainSongStrongHurtLossComfortEmbraceJazzRejectionVery StrongAlienationAbandonment
Author:Cecil Williams
Create image

“I came to the realization that I had failed in some respects because I had been more of a benevolent narrator than the world I saw reflected around me, and in the lives of the people in my community, and in my family. There was no benevolent God sparing us pain and loss and grief and struggle. If I was going to continue to write about the place where I am from, and the kind of people who live in my community and who are in my family, I owed it to them to be honest with what our lives are like.”

PeopleWorldWritingKindPainCommunityLossGriefStruggleHonestMy FamilyRealizationBeing HonestBenevolent
Author:Jesmyn Ward
Create image

“Desire and loss of will tend to hurt the mind, which can lead to fear and compulsion. The result is that we suppress negative emotions, which we've been taught to be shameful of and hide, such as pain, anger, sorrow, and resentment. I take these complex and varied emotions surrounded by obscurity, absurdity, contradiction, and events out of our control such as tragedy, and project them in my work. So I understand that the images can generate fear, confusion, and anxiety in the audience, and if they're difficult to turn away from, it only means that my intention has been communicated.”

MindMeanPainDesireDifficultHurtLossEmotionAudienceSorrowAnxietyNegativeTragedyIntentionConfusionContradictionResentmentAbsurdityShameful
Author:Hyon Gyon
Create image

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of those depths.”

PeopleWayInspirationalWisdomPainBeautifulSufferingFoundLossGriefKnownBeautyStruggleOvercomingDepthDefeatThis LifeGrievingGrief And LossDeath Of A Loved OneSensitivityGentlenessPsychiatristBeing StrongOvercoming ChallengesBeautiful PeopleGrief And HealingPain And SufferingBeing BeautifulGriefingAlways Be HappyYou Are BeautifulDay To Day LifeLosing A Loved OneLoss Of A Loved OneGrief LossCancer PatientsYour BeautifulGrief And DeathThose GrievingWorld SufferingGrieving A DeathGrief ComfortDeath And LossBeautiful InsideCancer CourageGrief HealingSuffering And PainSuffering PainHelp With GriefInspirational BeautyGrief And HopePain SufferingGrieving And HealingPain And LossComfort The GrievingDepression InspirationalGrieving LossAppreciation In RelationshipsPeople With CancerAmazing BeautifulRecovering From GriefGrieving A LossGrieving And LossI Am BeautifulLife Is So Beautiful
Author:Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Create image

“If you are a card-carrying human being, chances are that you share the same fear as all other humans: the fear of losing love, respect and connection to others. And if you are human, in order to avoid or prevent the pain, trauma and perceived devastation of the loss, you will do anything to avoid your greatest fear from being visited on you.”

IfsHumansPainOrderChanceHuman BeingsLossShareLosingConnectionsTraumaCardsChances AreDevastationGreatest FearLove RespectLosing Love
Author:Iyanla Vanzant
Create image

“People worry about kids playing with guns, and teenagers watching violent videos; we are scared that some sort of culture of violence will take them over. Nobody worries about kids listening to thousands - literally thousands - of songs about broken hearts and rejection and pain and misery and loss.”

PeopleHeartKidsPainSongCultureLossMusicWorryViolenceSadnessBrokenListeningGunMiseryScaredViolentVideoTeenagerRejectionFidelityKids Playing
Book:High Fidelity
Create image

“...for most people in the [Jewish] Ghetto [of Warsaw] nature lived only in memory -- no parks, birds, or greenery existed in the Ghetto -- and they suffered the loss of nature like a phantom-limb pain, an amputation that scrambled the body's rhythms, starved the senses, and made basic ideas about the world impossible for children to fathom.”

PeopleWorldChildrenMadeIdeasBodyPainMemoriesLossImpossibleBirdSensesRhythmParksLimbsGhettoPhantomsFathomAmputationGreeneryWarsawPhantom Limbs
Author:Diane Ackerman
Create image

“Time is a lot of the things people say that God is. There's always preexisting, and having no end. There's the notion of being all powerful-because nothing can stand against time, can it? Not mountains, not armies. And time is, of course, all-healing. Give anything enough time, and everything is taken care of: all pain encompassed, all hardship erased, all loss subsumed. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Remember, man, that thou art dust; and unto dust thou shalt return. And if time is anything akin to God, I suppose that memory must be the devil.”

PeopleIfsMenGivingArtEndsEnoughCarePainRememberCoursesMemoriesLossPowerfulHealingTakenReturnMountainDevilArmyNotionDustHardshipAshesEnough TimeGod Is ThereDust To Dust
Author:Diana Gabaldon
Create image

“You’ll get over it…” It’s the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don’t get over it because ‘it” is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not made anodyne by death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no-one else can fit it. Why would I want them to?”

PeopleWantLoveHeartPersonsMadeEnoughPainCausesLosesLossLove IsTroubleLove YouMy HeartFitShapesHolesGrievingOver ItGapsPregnancyGet OverSomeone You LoveHole In My Heart
Author:Jeanette Winterson
Create image

“Because God is never cruel, there is a reason for all things. We must know the pain of loss; because if we never knew it, we would have no compassion for others, and we would become monsters of self-regard, creatures of unalloyed self-interest. The terrible pain of loss teaches humility to our prideful kind, has the power to soften uncaring hearts, to make a better person of a good one.”

IfsKnowsHeartKindPersonsSelfReasonPainPurposeInterestLossCompassionTeachHumilityTerribleCreaturesAll ThingsRegardMonstersRipSelf InterestBetter PersonUncaringCompassion For OthersNo Compassion
Book:The Darkest Evening of the Year: A Novel
Create image

“It’s the same with people who say, ‘Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.’ Even people who say this must realize that the exact opposite is true. What doesn’t kill you maims you, cripples you, leaves you weak, makes you whiny and full of yourself at the same time. The more pain, the more pompous you get. Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you incredibly annoying.”

PeoplePainRealizingLossWeakOppositesStrongerAnnoyingPompousCripplesMakes You StrongerFull Of Yourself
Book:Love Is a Mix Tape: Life, Loss, and What I Listened To
Create image

“The earth will never be the same again Rock, water, tree, iron, share this greif As distant stars participate in the pain. A candle snuffed, a falling star or leaf, A dolphin death, O this particular loss A Heaven-mourned; for if no angel cried If this small one was tossed away as dross, The very galaxies would have lied. How shall we sing our love's song now In this strange land where all are born to die? Each tree and leaf and star show how The universe is part of this one cry, Every life is noted and is cherished, and nothing loved is ever lost or perished.”

IfsShowsEarthPainLife IsSongDiesFallUniverseLostHeavenStarsWaterBornLossTreeShareLandRocksCryParticularStrangeAngelIronCandleCriedLeafsOur LoveGalaxyLiedDolphinsDrossBorn To DieGreif
Author:Madeleine L'Engle
Create image

“It is said that mourning, by its gradual labour, slowly erases pain; I could not, I cannot believe this; because for me, Time eliminates the emotion of loss (I do note weep), that is all. For the rest, everything has remained motionless. For what I have lost is not a Figure (the Mother), but a being; and not a being, but a quality (a soul): not the indispensable, but the irreplaceable.”

BelieveSaidSoulPainMotherLostLossEmotionQualityFiguresNotesMourningLabourIndispensableEraseIrreplaceable
Author:Roland Barthes
Create image

“It was like that. Sometimes I'd go for a period—days or weeks—without feeling the full sweep of my loss, and then as unexpected as a thunderclap, the realization would rip the protective coating from my senses. Maybe that's the way it is with trick knees and aging griefs. Totally pain free one moment and absorbingly painful the next.”

WaySometimesMomentsFeelingsPainNextLossGriefWeekPeriodsAgingPainfulSensesTricksRealizationKneesUnexpectedRipProtective
Book:Morning is a long time coming
Create image

“At first, it feels as if she has vanished forever, and all traces are destroyed. But later, when the pain of loss doesn't overwhelm all your other feelings, every time you think of her, or hear her voice in your head, or remember a happy time together, you realize she's still a part of you and will never be totally gone.”

IfsThinkingFeelsFirstsStillsFeelingsPainTogetherRememberVoiceRealizingLossGoneForeverDestroyedTime TogetherHappy Times
Author:Maria V. Snyder
Create image

“The Detective was different. Not that he wasn't a good man; Willie had heard enough about him to understand that he was the kind who didn't like to turn away from another's pain, the kind who couldn't put a pillow over his ears to drown out the cries of strangers. Those scars he had were badges of courage, and Willie knew that there were others hidden beneath his clothes, and still more deep inside, right beneath the skin and down to the soul. No, it was just that whatever goodness was there coexisted with rage and grief and loss.”

MenKindStillsDifferentSoulEnoughPainTurnsLossGriefHeardCryGoodnessClothesSkinsEarsStrangerRageGood ManGrief And LossScarPillowDetectivesDeep InsideBadges
Author:John Connolly
Create image

“I wondered if he could ever understand that it was a blessing, not a sin, to be graced with more than one love. It could be complicated; of course it could be complicated. And it opened one up to the possibility of more pain and loss. Still, it was a blessing I would never relinquish. Love, genuine love, was always a cause for joy.”

IfsStillsPainJoyCoursesCausesLossSinPossibilityBlessingComplicatedGenuineOne LoveGenuine LovePain And Loss
Author:Jacqueline Carey
Create image

“To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out to another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas and dreams before a crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure. But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.”

TryingIdeasSelfFeelingsDreamPainLife IsLossLove IsLaughingTakenRiskFoolReturnCrowdsReach OutSentimentalTrue SelfInvolvementAppearingHazardsBeing LovedExposingIdeas And Dreams
Author:William Arthur Ward
Create image

“Whether one is rich or poor, educated or illiterate, religious or nonbelieving, man or woman, black, white, or brown, we are all the same. Physically, emotionally, and mentally, we are all equal. We all share basic needs for food, shelter, safety, and love. We all aspire to happiness and we all shun suffering. Each of us has hopes, worries, fears, and dreams. Each of us wants the best for our family and loved ones. We all experience pain when we suffer loss and joy when we achieve what we seek. On this fundamental level, religion, ethnicity, culture, and language make no difference.”

MenWantInspirationalNeedsDreamPainJoySufferingCultureLanguageBlackDifferencesReligiousLossWhitePoorLevelsWorryRichShareAchieveEqualAnd LoveSafetyFundamentalsEducatedBuddhistOur FamilyChanging The WorldBrownLoved OnesShelterAspireEthnicityHaving HopeIlliterateBlack WhiteBasic NeedsRich Or PoorWorry FearCulture And LanguageFears And Dreams
Author:Dalai Lama
Create image

“Reality is a state of mind. To the banker, the money in his ledger book is all very real, though he doesn't actually see it or touch it. But to the Brahma, it simply doesn't exist the way the air and the earth, pain and loss do. To him, the banker's reality is folly. To the banker, the Brahma's ideas are as inconsequential as dust.”

WayMindBookIdeasRealStatesRealityEarthPainLossAirDustFollyState Of MindHinduismBankersBrahmaInconsequentialPain And Loss
Book:The Gemma Doyle Trilogy
Create image

“To see and feel one's beloved naked for the first time is one of life's pure, irreducible epiphanies. If there is a true religion in the universe, it must include that truth of contact or be forever hollow. To make love to the one true person who deserves that love is one of the few absolute rewards of being a human being, balancing all of the pain, loss, awkwardness, loneliness, idiocy, compromise, and clumsiness that go with the human condition. To make love to the right person makes up for a lot of mistakes.”

IfsFeelsFirstsHumansPersonsPainUniverseSexHuman BeingsLossLove IsMistakeForeverConditionsLonelinessPureDeserveFirst TimeAbsolutesRewardsNakedContactCompromiseBelovedHuman ConditionMaking LoveHollowEpiphanyRight PersonTrue ReligionAwkwardnessIdiocyClumsinessEndymionTrue Person
Book:Rise of Endymion
Create image

“If a man does not die of a wound, then it heals in some fashion, and so it is with loss. From the sharp pain of immediate berevement, both the Prince and I passed into the gray days of numb bewilderment and waiting. So grief has always seemed to me, a time of waiting not for the hurt to pass, but to become accustomed to it.”

IfsMenDoePainDiesWaitingHurtLossGriefFashionWoundsHealGrayAccustomedNumbBewildermentGray Days
Book:Fool's Errand: The Tawny Man Trilogy
Create image

“When you want something so bad it hurts,” he said quietly, “and you bury it, bury it so deep that you convince yourself it no longer matters . . . and someone tells you you can have it, it's terrifying. What if you take the chance and you're wrong? What if you let yourself feel the loss and it's this huge pain and you can't put it back in the box?”

IfsWantFeelsSaidMatterPainHurtChanceLossHugeBoxesConvinceWhat IfIt HurtsWant Something
Author:Nalini Singh
Create image