“The fears that assault us are mostly simple anxieties about social skills, about intimacy, about likeableness, or about performance. We need not give emotional food or charge to these fears or become attached to them. We don’t even have to shame ourselves for having these fears. Simply ask your fears, “What are you trying to teach me?” Some say that FEAR is merely an acronym for “False Evidence Appearing Real.” From Everything Belongs, p. 143” NeedsGivingTryingRealAsksSocialSimpleTeachEmotionalSkillsAnxietyEvidencePerformancesShameIntimacyAssaultAppearingSocial SkillsAcronyms Author:Richard Rohr
“Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.” IfsThinkingFeelsWritingMayHomeEnergySpeakStrongWishSocialEnjoyPartyHorrorSkillsConversationConflictMeetingsDiscussionDislikeContrastIntrovertColleaguesClose FriendsPajamasIntroversionSmall TalkSocial SkillsBusiness Meeting Author:Susan Cain
“In this time of globalization, with all its advantages, the poor are the most vulnerable to having their traditions, relationships and knowledge and skills ignored and denigrated, and experiencing development with a great sense of trauma, loss and social disconnectedness.” CultureSocialLossPoorDevelopmentSkillsAdvantageTraditionTraumaVulnerableIgnoredGlobalizationDisconnectedness Author:James Wolfensohn