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“I'm older now, I'm a man getting near middle age, putting on a little fat and I still love to walk along Fifth Avenue at three o'clock on the east side of the street between Fiftieth and Fifty-seventh streets, they're all out then, making believe they're shopping, in their furs and their crazy hats, everything all concentrated from all over the world into eight blocks, the best furs, the best clothes, the handsomest women, out to spend money and feeling good about it, looking coldly at you, making believe they're not looking at you as you go past.”

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Book:Short Stories of Irwin Shaw
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Irwin Shaw
Irwin Shaw

Irwin Shaw was an American playwright known for his profound characterizations and realistic style. His works often explore the relationship between individuals and society, as well as the complexities of morality and ethics. Shaw's plays, including 'The Hospital' and 'Bury the Dead', had a significant impact on American theater in the mid-20th century. more

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