Best shame & parent Quotes | Short & Famous Sayings

“Being natural and matter-of-fact about nudity prevents your children from developing an attitude of shame or disgust about the human body. If parents are very secretive about their bodies and go to great lengths to prevent their children from ever seeing a buttock or breast, children will wonder what is so unusual, and even alarming, about human nudity.”

“True modesty is a discerning grace And only blushes in the proper place; But counterfeit is blind, and skulks through fear, Where 'tis a shame to be asham'd t' appear: Humility the parent of the first, The last by vanity produc'd and nurs'd.”

Firsts Lasts Parent Grace Humility Shame Blind Vanity Modesty Counterfeit Discerning

Book:Poems

Source: Poems

“I had very literal parents and I wanted to survive with metaphor and art, and there was a real sense of shame around it.”

Art Real Wanted Parent Shame Metaphor Literal

Author:Amanda Palmer

“Without a sense of the shame or guilt of his or her action, the child will only be hardened in rebellion by physical punishment. Shame (and praise) help the child to internalize the parent's judgment. It impresses upon the child that the parent is not only more powerful but also right. Like the Puritans, Locke (in 1690), wanted the child to adopt the parent's moral position, rather than simply bow to superior strength or social pressure.”

Children Helping Action Wanted Social Parent Powerful Moral Position Judgment Pressure Praise Shame Guilt Punishment Superiors Rebellion Bows Impress Puritan Hardened Social Pressure

Author:C. Sommerville

“This country you're sitting in right now was not built on love, hugs, time-outs and trophies you didn't earn. This country was built on shame, humiliation and striving to be better. By the way, if you're in this room right now and you're successful... you didn't get there because someone loved you too much or gave you too many hugs or you got a trophy when you lost. You did it because at one point in your life, somebody turned to you and said you're a loser, and in that second, you decided to bust your ass to make them choke on that sentence... Or, your parents gave you the money.”

Ifs Way Said Country Lost Parent Rooms Successful Too Much Right Now Sitting Built Decided Shame Strive Sentences Ass Loser Hug Humiliation One Love Choke Trophies Lost You

Author:Christopher Titus

“Branne's [Pavlovic] parents wanted him to become a taxi driver, but he became a stand-up comedian instead. So they died of shame.”

Wanted Parent Died Shame Comedian Drivers Taxi Stand Up Comedian

Author:Aron Flam

“I don't know if that's the best story for BoJack, long-term. I do love the world, and I love playing around in it and it feels like an elastic enough world that, any story I want to tell, I can tell about these characters in this world. I can talk about parents and children, husbands and wives, the troops, or Hollywood. It does feel like an endless playground at this point, it would be a shame if we cut it off early for fear of repeating the same things over and over again. But I am looking to move the story and character somewhat.”

World Children Enough Character Moving Parent Cutting Wife Husband Shame Husband And Wife

Author:Raphael Bob-Waksberg

“In various European countries, it is increasingly common for young men to live with their parents into their 30s and even longer. Why not? In the welfare state, there is no shame in doing so.”

Men Country States Young Parent Common Shame Various Welfare Young Man Why Not Welfare State European Countries

Author:Dennis Prager

“When everyone at school is speaking one language, and a lot of your classmates' parents also speak it, and you go home and see that your community is different -there is a sense of shame attached to that. It really takes growing up to treasure the specialness of being different.”

Different Home School Speak Language Parent Community Growing Up Growing Shame Treasure Being Different Classmates Specialness

Author:Sonia Sotomayor

“You cannot let your parents anywhere near your real humiliations.”

Real Parent Shame Humiliation

Author:Alice Munro

“Of course, everyone's parents are embarrassing. It goes with the territory. The nature of parents is to embarrass merely by existing, just as it is the nature of children of a certain age to cringe with embarrassment, shame, and mortification should their parents so much as speak to them on the street.”

Should Children Age Certain Courses Speak Parent Streets Shame Parenting Territory Embarrassing Embarrassment Cringe Mortification

Book:Anansi Boys

Source: Anansi Boys

“You are putting yourself in serious danger...' I think that I preferred to put myself in serious danger rather than confront my shame. My shame at not having become someone, the shame of not having made my parents proud after all the sacrifices they had made for me. The shame of having become a mediocre nihilist.”

Thinking Made Parent Sacrifice Danger Serious Proud Shame Mediocre Nihilist

Author:Marjane Satrapi

“And nothing inspires as much shame as being a parent. Children confront us with our paradoxes and hypocrisies, and we are exposed. You need to find an answer for every why — Why do we do this? Why don’t we do that? — and often there isn’t a good one. So you say, simply, because. Or you tell a story that you know isn’t true. And whether or not your face reddens, you blush. The shame of parenthood — which is a good shame — is that we want our children to be more whole than we are, to have satisfactory answers.”

Knows Want Needs Children Whole Stories Faces Parent Answers Inspire Shame Our Children Hypocrisy Paradox Your Face Parenthood Exposed Being A Parent Parent Child

Author:Jonathan Safran Foer

“I thought there were moments to complain about your parents and moments to be grateful, and it was a shame to mix those moments up.”

Moments Parent Shame Grateful Complaining Be Grateful

Book:We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves

Source: We Are All Completely Beside Ourselves

“Quite often I have been faced with people who were praised and admired for their talents and their achievements... According to prevailing attitudes, these people-the pride and joy of their parents-should have had a strong and stable sense of self-assurance. But the case is exactly the opposite... Whenever they suddenly get the feeling they have failed to live up to some ideal image or have not measured up to some standard, then they are plagued by anxiety or deep feelings of guilt and shame. What are the reasons for such disturbances in these competent, accomplished people?”

“Lord, with what care hast Thou begirt us round! Parents first season us; then schoolmasters deliver us to laws; they send us bound to rules of reason, holy messengers, pulpits and Sundays, sorrow dogging sin, afflictions sorted, anguish of all sizes, fine nets and stratagems to catch us in, bibles laid open, millions of surprises, blessings beforehand, ties of gratefulness, the sound of glory ringing in our ears: without, our shame; within, our consciences; angels and grace, eternal hopes and fears. Yet all these fences and their whole array one cunning bosom-sin blows quite away.”

Source: The works of the Rev. George Herbert: with remarks on his writings, and a sketch of his life

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