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“'Yo I'm from Africa' Boy you're just a faker. Name one city: 'Uhh, Jamaica!' Wrong! And I think that's a shame, An African look with an American name.”

Thinking Looks Names Cities Boys Shame Hip Hop Rap Jamaica

Author:King Sun

“There's shames a man can never reason away, though he looks back and piles up reasons over them forty dozen deep. And maybe those are the shames a man never should reason away.”

Men Should Looks Reason Shame Forty Dozen

Book:Sometimes a Great Notion

Source: Sometimes a Great Notion

“Our relationship with food - how, when, what and why we eat - is a direct expression of our underlying feelings, thoughts and beliefs about ourselves. It has to do with stances we take that get reflected not only in our relationship with food, but in all our relationships. It just so happens that the relationship with food causes enough conflict, grief, shame and hurt that we’re willing to look at it.”

Looks Enough Feelings Happens Belief Causes Hurt Grief Food Willing Expression Conflict Direct Shame Our Relationship Stance

Author:Geneen Roth

“Do the Pentecostals look back with shame as they remember when they dwelt across the theological tracks, but with the glory of the Lord in their midst? When they had a normal church life, which meant nights of prayers, followed by signs and wonders, and diverse miracles, and genuine gifts of the Holy Ghost? When they were not clock watchers, and their meetings lasted for hours, saturated with holy power? Have we no tears for these memories, or shame that our children know nothing of such power?”

“The ideal body is everywhere you look, and we are made to feel like failures by advertisers and corporations who shame us into buying their products.”

Feels Looks Made Body Products Ideals Shame Corporations Buying Advertisers

Author:Caitlin Stasey

“You can't look outside of yourself. You must look within yourself, and address all of the things that are going on within you, and clear out the things that are not useful. Whether it's fear or anger or shame or guilt or whatever it is - clean that stuff up.”

Looks Stuff Clear Shame Guilt Clean Addresses Within You

Author:Iyanla Vanzant

“We feel properly embarrassed when we are caught doing something that makes us look inept, knuckleheaded, or inappropriate. Maybe the difference is this: we feel embarrassed because we look bad, and we feel shame because we think we are bad. When we are embarrassed, we feel socially foolish. When we are shamed, we feel morally unworthy.”

Thinking Feels Looks Differences Shame Caught Foolish Embarrassed Embarrassment Unworthy Inappropriate

Author:Lewis B. Smedes

“Women are using makeup to make their eyes look puffy, their noses look red, and instead of going to the gym, they start their day with a brisk walk of shame.”

Looks Eye Walks Red Shame Noses Makeup Gym

Author:Peter Sagal

“We have the - the longest, friendliest border, you know, for the - for the longest time in the history - in recorded history, really, with Canada. And they get to sit on their moral perch, you know, take the moral high ground, say, oh, United States, shame on you about Iraq. They make us look bad internationally. And it's really not fair.”

Knows Looks States United Moral United States Fairs Shame Iraq Borders Canada Not Fair High Ground Shame On You Moral High Ground

Author:Tucker Carlson

“I think by all accounts in the same way we look back on the anti-Catholic and anti-Jewish sentiments of our history with shame and derision and with a healthy dose of mockery, that's how we will very likely look back on this sort of anti-Muslim sentiment as well in the next generation.”

Thinking Way Wells Looks Next Generations Healthy Accounts Shame Catholic Sentiments Next Generation Dose Mockery Derision

Author:Reza Aslan

“You know, we'll hardly get our feet out of time [and] into eternity that we'll bow our heads in shame and humiliation. We'll gaze on eternity and say, 'My God! Look at all the riches there were in Jesus Christ, and I've come to the Judgment Seat almost a pauper!”

Knows Looks Jesus Christ Feet Judgment Jesus Christ Eternity Shame Riches Seats Bows Humiliation

Author:Aiden Wilson Tozer

“If there's not someone in your social circle who doesn't look like you, then shame on you.”

Ifs Looks Social Like You Shame Circles Shame On You

Author:Leigh Anne Tuohy

“Standards of beauty are arbitrary. Body shame exists only to the extent that our physiques don't match our own beliefs about how we should look.”

Should Looks Body Belief Standards Shame Arbitrary Physique Standards Of Beauty

Author:Martha Beck

“The latest horror to hit the U.S. looks to have been caused by people of Middle Eastern origin, bearing Muslim names. Again, shame. This fuels more hatred for a religion and a people who have nothing to do with these events.”

People Looks Has Beens Religion Names Middle Events Horror Hatred Shame Fuel Eastern

Author:Cat Stevens

“Look around. Oil companies guzzle down the billions in profits. Billionaires pay a lower tax rate than their secretaries, and Wall Street CEOs, the same ones the direct our economy and destroyed millions of jobs still strut around Congress, no shame, demanding favors, and acting like we should thank them. Does anyone here have a problem with that?”

“Today, if you look at financial systems around the globe, more than half the population of the world - out of six billion people, more than three billion - do not qualify to take out a loan from a bank. This is a shame.”

People Ifs World Looks Today Three Half Six Shame Financial Population Billions Finance Gambling Globes Loan Financial System

Author:Muhammad Yunus

“Oh! that look of love!" continued he, between his teeth, as he bolted himself into his own private room. "And that cursed lie; which showed some terrible shame in the background, to be kept from the light in which I thought she lived perpetually! Oh, Margaret, Margaret! Mother, how you have tortured me! Oh! Margaret, could you not have loved me? I am but uncouth and hard, but I would never have led you into any falsehood for me.”

Looks Hard Light Lying Mother Rooms Terrible Shame Backgrounds Teeth Classic Falsehood Cursed Uncouth

Book:The Complete Works of Elizabeth Gaskell (20+ Books)

Source: The Complete Works of Elizabeth Gaskell (20+ Books)

“In my view, suicide is not really a wish for life to end.' What is it then?' It is the only way a powerless person can find to make everybody else look away from his shame. The wish is not to die, but to hide.”

Way Looks Persons Ends Dies Wish Views Shame Suicide Powerless

Book:Ender's Game Boxed Set: Ender's Game, Ender's Shadow

Source: Ender's Game Boxed Set: Ender's Game, Ender's Shadow

“Look: the trees exist; the houses we dwell in stand there stalwartly. Only we pass by it all, like a rush of air. And everything conspires to keep quiet about us, half out of shame perhaps, half out of some secret hope.”

Looks House Secret Half Air Tree Quiet Shame

Author:Rainer Maria Rilke

“I’m sick of being everyone’s regret. My mother died in shame because she’d borne me. My father and brother despise me and my sister can barely look me in the eye! (Acheron)”

Looks Eye Mother Father Brother Regret Sick Died Shame My Sister Despise Mother Died Father And Brother Look Me In The Eye

Book:Acheron: A Dark-Hunter Novel

Source: Acheron: A Dark-Hunter Novel

“You're an investigator - can't nobody find stuff out like a woman. Y'all put the police to shame, make the little investigative tricks they show on CSI and Law & Order: SVU look like counting lessons on Sesame Street.”

Looks Littles Shows Law Order Stuff Streets Lessons Police Shame Tricks Counting Investigators Sesame Street Csi

Author:Steve Harvey

“Into the face of the young man who sat on the terrace of the Hotel Magnifique at Cannes there had crept a look of furtive shame, the shifty, hangdog look which announces that an Englishman is about to talk French.”

Men Looks Faces Young Speak Language Shame Young Man Sat Hotel Englishmen Cannes Terrace Speaks French

Author:P. G. Wodehouse

“Sure you can manage that broom, Potter?" said a cold, drawling voice. Draco Malfoy had arrived for a closer look, Crabbe and Goyle right behind him. "Yeah, reckon so," said Harry casually. "Got plenty of special features, hasn't it?" said Malfoy, eyes glittering maliciously. "Shame it doesn't come with a parachute - in case you get too near a Dementor." Crabbe and Goyle sniggered. "Pity you can't attach an extra arm to yours, Malfoy," said Harry. "Then it could catch the Snitch for you.”

Looks Said Eye Voice Behinds Cases Special Arms Cold Shame Yeah Pity Manage Plenty Features Extras Mentor Harry Potter Potters Parachutes Brooms Malfoy Draco Draco Malfoy Dementors Snitch

Author:J. K. Rowling

“Sophie held the [hand]cuffs higher, hopint to instill some sense of shame, if not in him, then at least in herself. One look at him and she wanted him again. "I found them in the bed." "That makes sense," Phin said. "That's where I lost them." "I'd ask what you were doing with them," Sophie said, trying not to sound bitchy, "but I probably don't want to know, do I?" "Sure you do. It was exciting and different and depraved." Phin nodded toward the stairs. "Go put them someplace we can find them, and I'll show you later.”

Ifs Knows Want Trying Looks Said Different Shows Hands Wanted Asks Found Lost Sound Higher Bed Exciting Shame Make Sense Stairs Sophie Instill Depraved Cuffs

Author:Jennifer Crusie

“Oh! why was I born with a different face? why was I not born like the rest of my race? when I look,each one starts! when I speak, I offend; then Im silent & passive & lose every friend. Then my verse I dishonour, my pictures despise, my person degrade & my temper chastise; and the pen is my terror, the pencil my shame; all my talents I bury, and dead is my fame. Im either too low or too highly prized; when elate I m envy'd, when meek Im despis'd”

Source: The Selected Poems of William Blake

“He turned to look just in time to see the rain start falling out as if the storm had finally decided to weep with shame for what it had done to them.”

Ifs Looks Done Fall Rain Decided Shame Storm Scorch Trials

Book:Maze Runner 2: The Scorch Trials

Source: Maze Runner 2: The Scorch Trials

“Adam gave me a scandalized look. "Fraternizing with the enemy!" he cried. "For shame, wench!”

Looks Enemy Shame Adam Cried Wenches

Book:Grave Doubts

Source: Grave Doubts

“Perfectionism is a self destructive and addictive belief system that fuels this primary thought: If I look perfect, and do everything perfectly, I can avoid or minimize the painful feelings of shame, judgment, and blame.”

Ifs Looks I Can Self Feelings Belief Perfect Judgment Shame Blame Painful Primaries Fuel Destructive Perfectionism Belief Systems Self Destructive Painful Feelings

Book:Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

“When I look at narcissism through the vulnerability lens, I see the shame-based fear of being ordinary. I see the fear of never feeling extraordinary enough to be noticed, to be lovable, to belong, or to cultivate a sense of purpose.”

Looks Enough Feelings Purpose Fear Ordinary Shame Extraordinary Vulnerability Narcissism Lenses Lovable

Book:Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

Source: Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

“There is no shame in loving. If your septons say there is, your seven gods must be demons. In the isles we know better. Our gods gave us legs to run with, noses to smell with, hands to touch and feel. What mad cruel god would give a man eyes and tell him he must forever keep them shut, and never look at all the beauty in the world? Only a monster god, a demon of the darkness.”

Ifs Knows Men World Giving Feels Looks Hands Eye Running Darkness Forever Shame Mad Seven Legs Smell Monsters Noses Demon Isle

Author:George R. R. Martin

“No one starts as a self-hater. But rack up all of your mistakes and take a large enough number of wrong turns in life and soon you stop trying to forgive yourself. Everywhere you look you find shame or failure staring back.”

Trying Looks Self Enough Turns Numbers Mistake Shame Forgiving Staring Stop Trying Forgive Yourself Racks Wrong Turn

Author:André Aciman

“There is certainly no greater happiness than to be able to look back on a life usefully and virtuously employed, to trace our own progress in existence, by such tokens as excite neither shame nor sorrow.”

Looks Able Memories Existence Greater Progress Sorrow Shame Employed Recollection Tokens

Book:The beauties of Samuel Johnson, LL. D.: consisting of maxims and observations, moral, critical, and miscellaneous: to which are now added biographical anecdotes of the doctor, selected from the works of Mrs. Piozzi;--his Life, recently published by Mr. Boswell, and other authentic testimonies; also his will, and the sermon he wrote for the late Doctor Dodd

Source: The beauties of Samuel Johnson, LL. D.: consisting of maxims and observations, moral, critical, and miscellaneous: to which are now added biographical anecdotes of the doctor, selected from the works of Mrs. Piozzi;--his Life, recently published by Mr. Boswell, and other authentic testimonies; also his will, and the sermon he wrote for the late Doctor Dodd

“...in the decline of life shame and grief are of short duration; whether it be that we bear easily what we have borne long; or that, finding ourselves in age less regarded, we less regard others; or, that we look with slight regard upon afflictions to which we know that the hand of death is about to put an end.”

Knows Looks Long Ends Hands Age Grief Bears Findings Regard Shame Decline Affliction Duration

Author:Lyndon B. Johnson

“Your machinery is beautiful. Your society people have apologized to me for the envious ridicule with which your newspapers have referred to me. Your newspapers are comic but never amusing. Your Water Tower is a castellated monstrosity with pepperboxes stuck all over it. I am amazed that any people could so abuse Gothic art and make a structure not like a water tower but like a tower of a medieval castle. It should be torn down. It is a shame to spend so much money on buildings with such an unsatisfactory result. Your city looks positively dreary.”

“It is misery, you know, unspeakable misery for the man who lives alone and who detests sordid, casual affairs; not old enough to do without women, but not young enough to be able to go and look for one without shame!”

Knows Men Looks Enough Able Young Women He Man Shame Misery Affair Casual Unspeakable

Book:Six Characters in Search of an Author

Source: Six Characters in Search of an Author

“Now, suppose a Negro does something really magnificent, and I glory, not in the benefit to mankind, but in the fact that the doer was a Negro. Must I not also go hang my head in shame when a member of my race does something execrable? . . . The white race did not go into a laboratory and invent incandescent light. That was Edison. . . . If you are under the impression that every white man is an Edison, just look around a bit.”

Ifs Men Looks Doe Facts Light Bits White Race Mankind Members Benefits Glory Shame Impression Magnificent White Man Laboratory Doers White Race

Author:Zora Neale Hurston

“Damn it's a shame you're the mighty queen of vials, With a wide-eyed look and a rotten-toothed smile. Used to walk with a swagger, now you simply stagger From one spot on, to the next spot on, to the next spot on, to the next.”

Looks Used Next Walks Shame Hip Hop Rap Wide Spots Queens Damn Rotten Swagger

Author:Sadat X

“The sunset looks beautiful over the projects... What a shame, it ain't the same where we stand at. If you look close, you can see the bricks chipped off. Sometimes niggas miss when they lick off.”

Ifs Looks Sometimes Beautiful Missing Projects Shame Hip Hop Rap Sunset Bricks

Author:Prodigy

“I admire some of the people on the screen today, but most of them look like everybody else. In our day we had individuality. Pictures were more sophisticated. All this nudity is too excessive and it is getting very boring. It will be a shame if it upsets people so much that it brings on the need for censorship. I hate censorship. In the cinema there's no mystery. No privacy. And no sex, either. Most of the sex I've seen on the screen looks like an expression of hostility towards sex.”

People Ifs Needs Looks Today Hate Sex Mystery Expression I Hate Shame Individuality Boring Screens Admire Cinema Upset Privacy Censorship Sophisticated Hostility Nudity

Author:Myrna Loy

“I think anyone who makes products has this simultaneous joy and, almost, shame looking at it. You look at it all day and all you can see is all these things you want to make better.”

Thinking Want Looks Joy Products Shame Simultaneous

Author:Ben Silbermann

“No one, it has been said, will ever look at the Moon in the same way again. More significantly can one say that no one will ever look at the earth in the same way. Man had to free himself from earth to perceive both its diminutive place in a solar system and its inestimable value as a life -fostering planet. As earthmen, we may have taken another step into adulthood. We can see our planet earth with detachment, with tenderness, with some shame and pity, but at last also with love.”

“My feelings about men are the result of my experience. I have little sympathy for them. Like a Jew just released from Dachau, I watch the handsome young Nazi soldier fall writhing to the ground with a bullet in his stomach and I look briefly and walk on. I don’t even need to shrug. I simply don’t care. What he was, as a person, I mean, what his shames and yearnings were, simply don’t matter.”

Men Needs Looks Mean Littles Persons Matter Feelings Care Young Fall Walks Results Watches Shame Soldier Jew Don't Care Stomach Yearning Bullets Nazi Handsome Misandry Man Hater Dachau

Book:The Women's Room

Source: The Women's Room

“Look around. Take the tour. Fear hangs on the wall and shame sometimes. Emotional dislocation too. But I am brave in my admission. Are you? When no one is looking, I check to see if anyone seems as scared as me, or lonely, or shy, or insecure. Is it just me? I'm not so sure. Is your heart an onion too? Show me yours, I'll show you mine we used to say. Your turn. Peel away.”

Ifs Looks Heart Sometimes Shows Seems Used Turns Emotional Mines Wall Lonely Shame Brave Scared Checks Shy Show Me Insecure Onions Admission Dislocation

Author:Nikki Grimes

“The irony of conversing with a stranger is that your individual lives always look very different and personal, but then you strip away the nuances to find a common likeness buried inside of diversity. Take away money and geography and we’re all just flesh and blood and soul. We’re all dealing with sin and forgiveness, love and hate, glory and shame.”

Looks Different Soul Hate Individual Sin Common Blood Diversity Glory Shame Stranger Flesh Irony Buried Geography Nuance Love And Hate Flesh And Blood Individual Life Forgiveness Love

Author:Charlie Peacock

“If you did wed my sister for her wealth, Then for her wealth's sake use her with more kindness; Or, if you like elsewhere, do it by stealth; Muffle your false love with some show of blindness; Let not my sister read it in your eye; Be not thy tongue thy own shame's orator; Look sweet, speak fair, become disloyalty; Apparel vice like virtue's harbinger; Bear a fair presence, though your heart be tainted; Teach sin the carriage of a holy saint; Be secret-false.”

Source: The Complete Works of William Shakespeare: Dramatic and Poetic

“It's a shame that creativity and sloth look exactly the same.”

Looks Creativity Shame Sloth

Book:The Chief Inspector Gamache Series

Source: The Chief Inspector Gamache Series

“For night's swift dragons cut the clouds full fast, And yonder shines Aurora's harbinger; At whose approach ghosts wandring here and there Troop home to church-yards.... For fear lest day should look their shames upon, They willfully exile themselves from light, And must for aye consort with black brow'd night.”

Should Looks Home Light Night Black Church Cutting Approach Shame Shining Clouds Ghost Dragons Yards Exile Here And There Brows Aurora Harbinger

Book:The Works of Shakespear, from Mr. Pope's Edition

Source: The Works of Shakespear, from Mr. Pope's Edition