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“Inside of you is your love, not beside you. She is just there to remind you of where you placed her heart.”

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Author:Shannon L. Alder

“It is not through fighting the opposition that will win you dignity. It is when you fight the fear in yourself that asks you why you don't feel you have it, regardless if you win or lose.”

“Make choices in life that don't leave people bitter, worse off or confused. Any choice that leads you to do this is a choice that didn't include God in the decision making process.”

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“The Warrior Woman Code: A confident woman doesn't beg a man to stay, cry if they don't or need to tear down other women to be loved. She knows her value. When the person she is meant to be with finds her, that person will know it also. He won't be confused by it. He will fight for her because without her he feels incomplete. She will always be foremost in his mind above anyone else. She doesn't have to scheme to keep or entice him. She is okay walking away from him because she doesn't want to be seen as a choice or a woman that has some potential. She demands to be seen as "the one." To settle for anything less than that is an admission of insecurity and lack of self love.”

“Never leave a situation unless you know what you needed and what you were never going to get.”

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“An infinity with God has always been a circle, not a straight line past all your mistakes.”

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“You don't walk away to prove your worth. You walk away because you allowed someone else to dictate your value and you found yourself believing it.”

“Humility is the only thing that can restore a relationship, when respect has been lost.”

“If two people truly have feelings for one another then they don’t have an affair. They get a divorce and they sort out their feelings. You are accountable for the people you hold hostage in a marriage when your mind and heart refuse to fully commit to them.”

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“The most spiritual people I’ve ever met were not “givers” they were communicators. You don’t give people crumbs. You give them the whole piece of bread when that is what they are asking for, in order to be healed. Christ was never about hiding behind a Facebook page, an email, a prayer circle, a bible, or a church. He was about talking, listening and healing-- face to face. He walked among sinners and ate with them. He devoted his time to people that were brokenhearted, difficult to like and fake as the religious beliefs they clung to. So, why is it that so many people profess to believe in Christ, yet they have forgotten what real love is----communicating?”

“When you are offered a miracle take it. Otherwise, show God your tail so he can move on and give it to someone who doesn't want to be in hell any more.”

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“The person holding a pen influences the most.”

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“Being an author is the most important job in the entire world. Without us you wouldn't know anything about God, Jesus or all the prophets that walked this earth. Without us you wouldn't know the purpose of life and how to behave or live. Without us you would be lost. Writing is what saves us all.”

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“Being an author is the most important job in the entire world. Without us you wouldn't know anything about God, Jesus or all the prophets that walked this earth. Without us you wouldn't know the purpose of life and how to behave or live. Think about how much written things have shaped this world. Without us you would be lost. Writing is what saves us all.”

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“God's justice will always be found at the end of a pen.”

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“Sometimes, we are unable to break free because we are held captive by divine assignment because in our problem God has given us a unique purpose.”

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“A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.”

“A fantasy is nothing more than a dream you were too scared to chase.”

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“The Anatomy of Conflict: If there is no communication then there is no respect. If there is no respect then there is no caring. If there is no caring then there is no understanding. If there is no understanding then there is no compassion. If there is no compassion then there is no empathy. If there is no empathy then there is no forgiveness. If there is no forgiveness then there is no kindness. If there is no kindness then there is no honesty. If there is no honesty then there is no love. If there is no love then God doesn't reside there. If God doesn't reside there then there is no peace. If there is no peace then there is no happiness. If there is no happiness ----then there IS CONFLICT BECAUSE THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION!”

“God whispered, "You endured a lot. For that I am truly sorry, but grateful. I needed you to struggle to help so many. Through that process you would grow into who you have now become. Didn't you know that I gave all my struggles to my favorite children? One only needs to look at the struggles given to your older brother Jesus to know how important you have been to me.”

“Be leery of silence. It doesn't mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading their guns.”

“Fear is to begin with the end in mind. There is no end. Life is eternal. Live life knowing that the end was your past, and the future is only full of beautiful beginnings through an eternity built around God’s love.”

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“Silence by any other name is called shame.”

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“Never speak unless you can improve upon the stupidness of people's silence.”

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“Silence Never Silence never healed the lonely. Silence never comforted the broken hearted. Silence never saved a life. Silence never won an argument with kindness. Silence never healed the poor. Silence never learned compassion. Silence never saw the pain in another. Silence never asked for forgiveness. Silence never felt remorse. Silence never felt empathy. Silence never grew up. Silence never listened to promptings. Silence never resolved a problem. Silence never had closure. Silence never had a conscience. Silence never developed integrity. Silence never knew manners. Silence never learned respect. Silence never matured. Silence never understood that the bible and its stories was God’s way of saying, “Stop being silent and start healing one another.” Silence never realized that Christ was an activist for communication.”

“There are always a million words behind the silence.”

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“Silence is for fools. Communication is for leaders. Justice is for those brave enough to not stand another moment dealing with people that feel the solution to any problem is through cold indifference because of their lack of courage and insecurities.”

“You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don't want the accountability of starting it.”

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“Like hatred, guilt can’t be locked in the silence of forgetting, without taking part of your soul with it.”

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“Silence is best reserved for the fearful and foolish.”

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“If you don't make a conscious effort to visualize, who you are and what you want to become in life, then you empower other people and circumstances to shape your journey by default. Your silence makes you reactive vs. proactive. God will bring people in your life that can take you on many different journeys that will bring about different outcomes to your life mission. However, if you are not proactive and define your dreams you will never know where “you” need to be and who needs to be with you to fulfill what God is asking you to do. Your life is your own. You must define your dreams, not live someone else’s vision of a good life. What is it that God is asking you to do with the talents and hobbies you enjoy? What were you blessed with a desire for? A good life is one spent in the service of helping others. Find a life partner that will help you reach God’s highest potential—service to humanity, service to his Kingdom, service to building others up. Also, begin any choice with the end in mind. This means to begin each day with a clear vision of your desired direction. It is not enough to live a passive life of religious devotion. God asked you to do more than worship. He has called you to serve, not to be a servant to other people’s dreams. You and only you know where your heart must travel. God brings you storms in life to wake you up. Don’t see it as his disappointment, but as his parental love for you. Life was not meant to stay the same. If someone truly loves you they will never take you away from God’s plan, they will only magnify it.”

“God’s warriors don’t avoid conflict. They fight through it with communication and a positive outlook.”

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“If you want to discover the true character of a person, you have only to observe what they are passionate about.”

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“In the end, what will you fight for-- what got there first, what got there last or what has been there all along?”

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“Sometimes we write to always remember how close we were to losing our soul.”

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Source: The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Bible: Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse

“Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or salvage their respect for you. The truth is this: If they care they will go out of their way to learn the truth. If they don't then they really don't value you as a human being. The moment you have to sell people on who you are is the moment you let yourself believe that every good thing you have ever done or accomplished was invisible to the world. And, it is not!”

“The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something is going to turn out, or how your past will affect your future, then you are finally living life free.”

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“Of all the questions I have asked my readers this is the most important: What would you do if you weren't afraid? When you finally give wings to that answer then you have found your life's purpose.”

Purpose Fear Life Mission

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“The more I know about God, I am convinced He likes to read books and authors are His librarians. Every soul is a story waiting to be read.”

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“Many of the most powerful things in life are not tangible. All it takes is for you to close your eyes to see.”

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“Art is nothing more than creating an emotion in your own form.”

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“You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to see the light.”

“They say instant communication is not communication at all but merely a frantic, trivial, nerve-wracking bombardment of clichés, threats, fads, fashions, gibberish and advertising. However, who has not hung on a scripture, a quote, a statement, only to stumble upon the key phrase that brought all things to a turning point? The greatest sermons and speeches were pieced together by illuminating thoughts that powered men to surpass their own commonness. It is the sparkling magic of letters forming words, and those words colliding with passion, that makes statements into wisdom.”

“There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.”

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“Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.”

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“I would fight every angel between us until God said, "Yes.”

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“Bargaining with God is pointless. He already has a thousand followers that will do what you bargained to do for free.”

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“But here is the thing about the stars and all of it's faults: We don't understand everything about it, but we still love it's beauty and wonder. We know of all the dangers, but we would still go there just because we wanted to touch the stars.”

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“Your current situation = the life expectations you have accepted as completed, unless you change your comfort zone to create a better life.”

“Before you call yourself a Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu or any other theology, learn to be human first.”

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