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“When people give up sex and give up love or they only have love in the context of tradition then I think we're missing the opportunity of saying to each other building community, building desire in community gives all of us the possibility of learning how to be who we always were terrified we'd find out we were, and then not be ashamed of it and to not have our desire and our love embedded in shame is a profound thing and it's part of what drives the movement.”

“I think young people are recognizing the power of institutions, and we have to really dismantle a lot of the stigma and shame, culturally, but we also have to change things in terms of how government and institutions deal with this.”

People Thinking Government Young Term Deals Shame Institutions Recognizing Stigma

Author:Cecile Richards

“I wish we had a more open discourse. It's just a shame that with our 24-hour news media and the Internet, people have become so fragmented. They only want to support their own worldview.”

People Want Wish Hours Support Media Internet News Shame Discourse Worldview Fragmented News Media

Author:Jim James

“It makes me a bit sad that, if anything, that people seem to want to go back to an old model of normality, and sitcoms seem to want to be about ordinary families and things that aren't very interesting. I just think it's a bit sad. It's a shame that life is still depicted in a very straight way.”

People Thinking Interesting Shame Very Interesting Sitcom

Author:Jennifer Saunders

“I think that, in our culture, we find older people to be almost invisible, and it's such a shame. The one thing, the one condition that we all suffer from, and that we all benefit from, is ageing. It starts at zero and we're all going in the same direction, and I always try to see the young person underneath the older person and that's all of us. We all feel the same way inside, and I think that there are so many ways for us to age well and to help our senior population get to the golden years with more dignity more independent and more enjoyment.”

People Thinking Trying Helping Age Suffering Culture Dignity Shame Independent Invisible Enjoyment Senior

Author:Leeza Gibbons

“To get out of desperate situation can only be done by education and by openness for Indonesians. Everybody who can, should be participating in this 'project'. Not only professional educators and teachers , but especially artists, creative people, thinkers. There should be many more initiatives, particularly more from the independent press! What happened to progressive independent publications in Indonesia? Nothing - they never took off! It is a shame.”

People Done Artist Situation Creative Teacher Shame Independent Desperate Progressive Openness Thinker Initiative Creative People Educator

Author:Andre Vltchek

“The people who have wealth and the people who earn money are going to be a little reluctant to part with it, particularly if they earned it fair and square. So, what has to happen is that there has to be a drumming in of a critique that causes shame, a sense of look, my country and even I am in possession of stolen goods you might say and therefore, the government becomes the instrument to get some of those back.”

People Country Wealth Shame Possession Critique

Author:Dinesh D'Souza

“I love secrets. Here's a bunch of people who think they know each other over a long period of time. And they do. And they don't. Secrets aren't the same thing as shame, but they can fall in that category. I'm very interested in the ways that people are open and honest with one another and simultaneously in hiding. What we know about those we love is only part of the story. Who do we protect with our secrets? Others? Ourselves? These are questions that interest me in fiction. The public and the private self.”

People Thinking Long Fall Interest Love Is Secret Honest Protect Shame Hiding

Author:Victoria Redel

“There were more people against going into Iraq than there were going into the Falklands... but the shame I carry as a British resident, was that it was a war handled in the media as if it were a World Cup summer. Like when England go into the World Cup, there are Union Jacks on the papers, and you can look at headlines from the time and it sounded just like that. Ultimately, I was privy to footage from ITN archives - that wasn't shown on television - of the people we were fighting, and it was shameful. It was bullying. It was really horrible. How could we have been proud of winning that?”

People World War Fighting Winning Proud Summer Shame Horrible Bullying Shameful

Author:Shane Meadows

“In marriage people get in fights because they don't communicate, because you don't want to hurt the other person. If you do want to hurt the other person, then shame on you - you're an asshole. My wife and I do not argue. We communicate. We talk. But we've never fought in our entire relationship.”

People Fighting Hurt Wife Shame Communicate My Wife Arguing

Author:Aaron Paul

“The urgency for me is to hurry up and become visible enough to either influence or shame other artists or corporations into understanding that there needs to be an equal starting block. You can't rush to make the changes. The rush that I have is to change the mindset of the people who can actually influence the situation in developed countries and in under - developed countries ... and not all under-developed countries need to develop. Maybe they just need to learn and be re - given the tools to understand how to use the land that they live on.”

People Country Enough Artist Understanding Situation Influence Equal Shame Mindset Block Urgency

Author:Aloe Blacc

“I think it's a shame when pop culture forgets that theatricality is a big part of it. When Neil Young is fumbling around in his pocket looking for the right harmonica, it doesn't matter that he's a dude in the hat who is a man of the people - there's a theatricality there. You don't have to be David Bowie or the Kabuki theater to have that theatricality going on.”

People Thinking Men Culture Forget Shame Pop Culture

Author:Johnny Marr

“We need more than simply financial education. We need to re-orient ourselves mentally, in terms of what the American Dream is, and how we fit into it. And we have to adjust ourselves to understand that finances are not everything in life. That would go a long way, towards changing this winner-and-loser mentality. We have to - Allow people to feel that sense of success, so they won't feel the sense of shame.”

People Long Dream Term Fit Shame Financial Finance Mentality American Dream

Author:Neal Gabler

“People grow up learning to be silent about their sexuality, so where are they going to learn to talk about it when they are in a relationship? Shame, guilt, ignorance, reservation, prudishness, all kinds of different cultural systems and social stereotypes shroud sexuality in secrecy and in silence. And there's the romantic notion. "If I say in the beginning, that I am missing something, you are instantly going to think that means you are not enough."”

People Thinking Kind Mean Different Enough Silence Growing Up Missing Ignorance Shame Guilt Silent Sexuality All Kinds Stereotype Secrecy

Author:Esther Perel

“If guilt tells us that we've done something wrong, then shame tells us that we are something wrong. So many people feel isolated, not good enough, defined by the labels they wear rather than the identity they have in Christ. The love of Christ tells us that we're accepted; that we belong.”

People Done Enough Christ Identity Shame Guilt Accepted Good Enough Not Good Enough

Author:Sheila Walsh

“You know, the elites always want to shame the poor - right? - and everyone else. I mean, the fact is, this economy is based on 70 percent of the people driving consumer demand. If people do not purchase goods and services, this economy will grind to recession. And that is why, if you are going to do a tax cut, it ought to really be aimed at low-income and middle-income people.”

People Mean Poor Economy Cutting Taxes Shame Driving Grind

Author:Keith Ellison

“You look worldwide for the great leaders, and they're pretty thin on the ground, and of course the problem is unless you're squeaky, squeaky clean, something is going to come out of the cupboard. Most people aren't squeaky clean. Most people have fallen by the wayside once or twice in their lives, and because the world is so transparent now, I think they're very fearful of running for office. It's a huge shame, because often people who have really lived and are amazing people can be brought down by a past indiscretion.”

People Thinking World Problem Running Past Leader Office Shame Fallen Fearful Great Leader Amazing People

Author:Jeremy Irons

“As a singer, I've always said, "Yes, I smoke weed," when I'm asked. Of course I say yes, because why wouldn't I smoke weed? There are many reasons not to, though not that many compared to the reasons to do it. I've always been open about it ... but people go, "Hippie! No, not listening to you," and I think that's a bloody shame.”

People Thinking Reason Listening Shame Weed Bloody Hippie

Author:Joss Stone

“I'll never, never understand why people think it's their business to comment on other people's bodies. I go to a spa in LA sometimes, a Korean day spa, and all the women there are nude. And I've never felt so in love with the human form as when I'm walking around and seeing all those bodies, thinking, Oh my god, we're all just built so differently. And every single body is beautiful. I will never understand that shame, and the reinforcement of that shame. It's crazy.”

People Thinking Sometimes Beautiful Crazy Walking Shame Comment Korean

Author:Tatiana Maslany

“Sexuality is so much more complex than our boobs. My sexuality isn't me as an object to be looked at. It's the way I say "hello" to somebody, the way I sit with somebody. A body is just a body. But we're really afraid of bodies. They hold a lot of power - I think that's why people can try to shame them so easily, because they are so powerful.”

People Thinking Trying Powerful Shame Sexuality Hello

Author:Tatiana Maslany

“When I was asked: "Will shame do it?" Meaning: Will welfare people be shamed into getting respectable work? And I said that shame plays the biggest role there is: The biggest shame is that there is so much abundance around but that so many have so little and so few have so much. That's the shame.”

People Shame Welfare Abundance Respectable

Author:Studs Terkel

“I have no shame around the fact that I can be shot into suicidal feelings by certain people's treatment of me. I am no different to any other person, I therefore act as I believe any other person should be free to.”

People Should Believe Persons I Can Different Facts Feelings Certain I Believe Shots Shame Treatment Suicidal

Author:Sinead O'Connor

“I'd like to see much more understanding of emotional issues around hurt, abandonment, disappointment, longing, failure and shame, where they stem from and how they drive people and policies brought into public discourse.”

People Understanding Hurt Issues Policy Emotional Shame Longing Disappointment Stem Discourse Abandonment Public Discourse

Author:Susie Orbach

“The latest horror to hit the U.S. looks to have been caused by people of Middle Eastern origin, bearing Muslim names. Again, shame. This fuels more hatred for a religion and a people who have nothing to do with these events.”

People Looks Has Beens Religion Names Middle Events Horror Hatred Shame Fuel Eastern

Author:Cat Stevens

“Today, if you look at financial systems around the globe, more than half the population of the world - out of six billion people, more than three billion - do not qualify to take out a loan from a bank. This is a shame.”

People Ifs World Looks Today Three Half Six Shame Financial Population Billions Finance Gambling Globes Loan Financial System

Author:Muhammad Yunus

“There is no flag large enough to cover the shame of killing innocent people.”

Source: Failure to Quit: Reflections of an Optimistic Historian

“People want to work with somebody who feels shame, who worries about the perceptions of others. Dishonesty is something we don't like in others.”

People Want Feels Worry Perception Shame Dishonesty Perception Of Others

Author:Frans de Waal

“Lead the people with administrative injunctions and put them in their place with penal law, and they will avoid punishments but will be without a sense of shame. Lead them with excellence and put them in their place through roles and ritual practices, and in addition to developing a sense of shame, they will order themselves harmoniously”

People Law Order Roles Practice Shame Excellence Profound Punishment Developing Ritual Administrative

Author:Confucius

“I have big friends who won't go swimming because they're too embarrassed about it. I feel that's such a shame, because actually people should be encouraging fat people who are exercising to do it, not pointing and laughing.”

People Feels Should Bigs Laughing Exercise Shame Fats Swimming Embarrassed Pointing Fat People

Author:Jo Brand

“You know, I once read an interesting book which said that, uh, most people lost in the wilds, they, they die of shame. Yeah, see, they die of shame. 'What did I do wrong? How could I have gotten myself into this?' And so they sit there and they... die. Because they didn't do the one thing that would save their lives. Thinking.”

People Thinking Knows Said Book Dies Lost Interesting One Thing Shame Yeah Interesting Book What Did I Do Wrong

Author:David Mamet

“Family are the people who must make you feel ashamed when you are deserving of shame.”

People Feels Shame Ashamed Deserving

Book:Everything Is Illuminated

Source: Everything Is Illuminated

“I keep thinking about this river somewhere, with the water moving really fast. And these two people in the water, trying to hold onto each other, holding on as hard as they can, but in the end it's just too much. The current's too strong. They've got to let go, drift apart. That's how it is with us. It's a shame, Kath, because we've loved each other all our lives. But in the end, we can't stay together forever.”

People Thinking Love Trying Two Ends Hard Together Moving Strong Water Forever Too Much Our Lives Letting Go Rivers Shame Currents Holding On Let Me Go Together Forever Never Let Me Go

Author:Kazuo Ishiguro

“(You do not have to be shamed in my closeness. Family are the people who must never make you feel ashamed.) (You are wrong. Family are the people who must make you feel ashamed when you are deserving of shame.) (And you are deserving of shame?) (I am. I am trying to tell you.) 'We were stupid,' he said, 'because we believed in things.' 'Why is this stupid?' 'Because there are not things to believe in.' (Love?) (There is no love. Only the end of love.) (Goodness?) (Do not be a fool.) (God?) (If God exists, He is not to be believed in.)”

People Ifs Feels Trying Believe Said Ends Stupid Fool Goodness Shame Ashamed Deserving No Love Closeness God Exists Believe In Love

Book:Everything Is Illuminated

Source: Everything Is Illuminated

“She was heartily ashamed of her ignorance - a misplaced shame. Where people wish to attach, they should always be ignorant. To come with a well−informed mind is to come with an inability of administering to the vanity of others, which a sensible person would always wish to avoid. A woman especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can.”

People Ifs Should Mind Wells Persons Wish Knowing Ignorance Shame Ignorant Vanity Ashamed Misfortunes Sensible Inability Misplaced

Author:Jane Austen

“A wave of blood goes up to my head, my stomach shrinks together, as if something dangerous has just missed hitting me. It's as if I've been caught stealing, or telling a lie; or as if I've heard other people talking about me, saying bad things about me, behind my back. There's the same flush of shame, of guilt and terror, and of cold disgust with myself. But I don't know where these feelings have come from, what I've done.”

Source: Cat's Eye

“Mari remembered what she had read in the young girl's eyes the moment she had come into the refectory: fear. Fear. Veronika might feel insecurity, shyness, shame, constraint, but why fear? That was only justifiable when confronted by a real threat: ferocious animals, armed attackers, earthquakes, but not a group of people gathered together in a refectory. But human beings are like that,' she thought. 'We've replaced nearly all our emotions with fear.”

People Feels Humans Real Moments Might Eye Together Young Girl Fear Human Beings Animal Emotion Groups Shame Threat Remembered Insecurity Replaced Constraints Earthquakes Shyness

Author:Paulo Coelho

“He leant his two elbows on his knees, and his chin on his hands and remained rapt in dumb meditation. On my inquiring the subject of his thoughts, he answered gravely 'I'm trying to settle how I shall pay Hindley back. I don't care how long I wait, if I can only do it at last. I hope he will not die before I do!' 'For shame, Heathcliff!' said I. 'It is for God to punish wicked people; we should learn to forgive.' 'No, God won’t have the satisfaction that I shall,' he returned. 'I only wish I knew the best way! Let me alone, and I'll plan it out: while I'm thinking of that I don't feel pain.”

Source: Wuthering Heights

“Naturally I feel no shame in writing these things because of the time which separates the moment when they are written--when only I can see them--from the moment when they will be read by other people, a moment which I feel will never come. By then I could have had an accident or died; a war or a revolution could have broken out. This delay makes it possible for me to write today, in the same way I used to lie in the scorching sun for a whole day at sixteen, or make love wihout contraceptives at twenty: without thinking about the consequences”

Source: Simple Passion

“It's such a shame that we know so little about our own country, that we can't find it in our hearts to love our own kind. Instead we admire those who show our country disrespect and betray its people.”

People Knows Heart Kind Littles Country Shows Shame Admire Our Country Betray Disrespect

Author:Orhan Pamuk

“Her heart's too hurt...you frightened her. And she's such a straight lady--she sees shame where some of us just see people.”

People Heart Hurt Shame Frightened

Author:Margo Lanagan

“So there's no guarantee if you like the music you will empathize with the culture and the people who made it. It doesn't necessarily happen. I think it can, but it doesn't necessarily happen. Which is kind of a shame.”

People Ifs Thinking Kind Made Happens Culture Shame Made It Guarantees

Author:David Byrne

“Such silly things, children -- and so embarrassing -- because they keep changing themselves out of shame, out of a need to be loved or something. While animals are born who they are, accept it, and that is that. They live with greater peace than people do.”

People Needs Children Born Animal Accepting Greater Shame Silly Embarrassing Silly Things

Author:Gregory Maguire

“My name is Asher Lev... I am a traitor, an apostate, a self-hater, an inflicter of shame upon my family, my friends, my people; also, I am a mocker of ideas sacred to Christians, a blasphemous manipulator of modes and forms revered by Gentiles for two thousand years.”

People Years Two Ideas Self Christian Form Names Thousand My Friends My Family Shame Sacred Thousand Years Traitor Gentiles Manipulator

Book:My Name Is Asher Lev

Source: My Name Is Asher Lev

“Wicked people means people who have no love: therefore, they have no shame. They have the power to ask love because the don't need it: they have the power to offer it because they have none to give.”

People Needs Giving Mean Asks Offers Shame Wicked No Love Mean People

Author:George Bernard Shaw

“When you visit countries that don't nurture these kinds of ambitions, you can feel th absence of hope...people are reduced to worrying only about that day's shelter or the next day's meal. It's a shame, even a tragedy, how many people do not get to think about the future. Technology coupled with wise leadership not only solves these problems but enables dreams of tomorow.”

People Thinking Feels Kind Country Problem Dream Next Technology Worry Wise Ambition Tragedy Shame Solve Absence Meals Shelter Nurture Next Day

Author:Neil deGrasse Tyson

“Are you one of those people who says on a first date, 'I'm really not in a hurry to meet somebody, I figure if it happens, it happens'? Because those are the most desperate people of all. I'm just saying this so that if you are this person, you aren't hiding it from anybody. There is no shame in being hungry for another person. There is no shame in wanting very much to share your life with somebody.”

People Ifs Firsts Persons Happens Share Figures Shame Hungry Desperate Hiding Just Saying First Date

Author:Augusten Burroughs

“Life...as God intended it enables us to live above the drag of fear, superstition, shame, pessimism, guilt, anxiety, worry, and all the negativity that keeps people from seizing each day as a gift from Him.”

People Fear Worry Anxiety Shame Guilt Each Day Pessimism Drag Superstitions Negativity Seizing

Author:Charles R. Swindoll

“There would be nothing I could do to you that would harm you more than what you're already doing to harm yourself...You are never going to amount to anything. You will always be the worthless muck people scrape from their shoes. You only get one life and you are wasting yours. That's a terrible shame. I doubt you will ever know what it is to be truly happy, to achieve anything of worth, to have genuine pride in yourself. You bring it all on yourself, and I could do no worse to you.”

People Knows Would Be Doubt Achieve Pride Amount Terrible Shame Shoes Harm Genuine Worthless Truly Happy Pride In Yourself

Book:Faith of the Fallen

Source: Faith of the Fallen

“He considered it a shame when people couldn't grasp the infinite-a failure not just of imagination but of simple vision.”

People Imagination Simple Vision Infinite Shame

Author:Jess Walter

“If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy, I can guarantee you they're bad people.”

People Ifs Trying I Can Judging Safe Shame Judgement Guarantees Make You Happy Bad People

Book:Assholes Finish First

Source: Assholes Finish First

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