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“Desconfía de tu deseo, sea cual sea. Desconfía de tu identidad, sea cual sea. La identidad no existe sino como espejismo político. "El deseo no es una reserva de verdad, sino un artefacto construido culturalmente, modelado por la violencia social, los incentivos y las recompensas, pero también por el miedo a la exclusión. No hay deseo homosexual y deseo heterosexual, del mismo modo que tampoco hay deseo bisexual: el deseo es siempre un recorte arbitrario en un flujo ininterrumpido y polívoco.”

“Desconozco el motivo, pero siempre me han importado sobremanera las historias de amores inconclusos, truncos, fracasados. No sólo los propios, sino también los ajenos. Siempre me han conmovido con su osamenta descomunal de esperanzas dilapidadas, de palabras perdidas, de paraísos negados para toda la vida. Ha de tratarse, supongo, de una innata tendencia a la nostalgia, una suerte de fatal y estúpida simpatía por los tristes y los derrotados. A tal punto son así las cosas que difícilmente una historia de amor merece tal nombre, a mi juicio, si tiene otro desenlace que el dolor, la distancia y el silencio.”

“Describe your street. Describe another street. Compare. Make an inventory of your pockets, of your bag. Ask yourself about the provenance, the use, what will become of each of the objects you take out. Question your tea spoons. What is there under your wallpaper? How many movements does it take to dial a phone number? Why? Why don’t you find cigarettes in grocery stores? Why not?”

“Describing our romantic longings in 'Life preserves,' therapist Harriet Lerner shares that most people want a partner 'who is mature and intelligent, loyal and trustworthy, loving and attentive, sensitive and open, kind and nurturant, competent and responsible.' No matter the intensity of this desire, she concludes: 'Few of us evaluate a prospective partner with the same objectivity and clarity that we might use to select a household appliance or a car.' To be capable of critically evaluating a partner we would need to be able to stand back and look critically at ourselves, at our needs, desires, and longings..... We fear that evaluating our needs and then carefully choosing partners will reveal that there is no one for us to love. Most of us prefer to have a partner who is lacking then no partner at all. What becomes apparent is that we may be more interested in finding a partner than in knowing love.”

“Describing some kinds of feelings comes across as too excessive in the first person. If you put it in the third person, you're taking a little bit of a distance, and that way it becomes more apprehensible to a viewer. You're always riding this fine line of risking saying too much, do you know what I mean? When you feel you're in that area, if you shift the address a little bit it can alter it.”

“Describing the process of making her decision to leave, Patricia said: “It is as if there is a shelf where all your doubts and misgivings are placed while you are in that group. Over the months or years you observe so many things that may conflict with your original beliefs and values, or you see things done by the group or leader that are just not right. Because of the indoctrination and not being allowed to ask questions, you just put it on the shelf. Eventually, the shelf gets heavier and heavier and finally just breaks, and you are ready to leave" (p. 55).”

“Descriere "Spre sfârșitul anului 2015 am terminat de scris o carte. Am început-o în anul 2013. Sufletul mi-a cerut să aștern pe hârtie o poveste despre oameni. Despre puterea lor de a iubi, despre capacitatea lor de a lupta cu suferința, despre forța lor de a-și construi destinele. Un volum care este de fapt o călătorie prin lume cu ajutorul cuvintelor. O călătorie care ne va conduce într-un final spre adevărul din noi înșine…! Această carte m-a făcut să mă înțeleg mai bine. Atât pe mine, cât și pe cei din jur. Acest volum a fost un elixir care m-a făcut mai bun. M-a făcut mai atent! M-a făcut mai conștient! Așa cum ar trebui să fim cu toții, în fiecare zi a vieții. Fără excepţie!”

“Description is what makes the reader a sensory participant in the story. Good description is a learned skill,one of the prime reasons you cannot succeed unless you read a lot and write a lot. It's not just a question of how-to, you see; it's a question of how much to. Reading will help you answer how much, and only reams of writing will help you with the how. You can learn only by doing.”